You can hypnotize someone without her awareness through conversation.
Conversational hypnotism is a method of covert hypnotism, which is hypnotizing an individual without his awareness of it through a seemingly innocent conversation. This method of hypnotism was pioneered by Dr. Milton Erickson and is a powerful tool that is also controversial because it can be abused. Many salesman consciously and unconsciously use some of the methods of conversational hypnotism when pitching products. However, this method of hypnotism can also be used to help individuals break negative habitual behaviors.
Instructions
1. Locate a certified hypnotist in your area who specializes in covert hypnotism and offers lessons. Conversational hypnotism classes are taught in group settings as well as in individual training. Your best bet in finding a hypnotism class covering conversational hypnotism will be through colleges and universities. Contact the higher-education institutions in your area to inquire about hypnotism courses. Conversational hypnotism is also called black ops hypnotism and underground hypnotism.
2. Take self-study courses through online offerings, CDs and books to learn conversational hypnotism. The self-study courses most recommended by the International Conversational Hypnosis Society are "The Art of Covert Hypnosis" by Steven Peliari and "Power of Conversational Hypnosis" by Clifford Mee and Igor Ledochowski. Reviews of these self-study courses suggest that they surpass the effectiveness of learning conversational hypnotism in classroom settings. These courses are offered on CD, accompanied by a course book. Others are strictly online-based, where the lessons are delivered to your email.
3. Practice using the techniques you have learned from the teaching of a certified hypnotist or through your self-study courses. Keep a record where you write down the name of your subject and the behavior and choices you are planning to elicit from a subject through conversation. Of course, you cannot tell the individual that you are attempting to hypnotize her, as that will defeat your purpose. After your attempts, record whether you failed or succeeded along with the methods you utilized. This should assist you in mastering conversational hypnotism.